incredibly low volume and a ton of sound leakage

ok so ill get it out of the way with the general unpairing and repairing or the reset your AirPods or to suck on them. tried em all. any guide on the internet on how to fix this has not helped me what so ever. so in summary my AirPods when I use them are to the point its a struggle to listen properly to music when the volume is at 100%. also when im using them at 100% volume people around me can hair what im playing way louder then I can. not only that. this is my second pair of AirPods. the same happened to the first pair then I got them replaced. unfortunately its now too late to get these replaced too. does anyone have any ideas about where I should go from here? or do I give up and just take it too apple and see what they can do.

thanks in advance for any responses